This should be an easy one for most people to figure out.

What would you’re guess be?

·         They don’t know WHAT they want?

·         Don’t believe it or on themselves?

·         Can’t get themselves to take action?

Well, they’re actually all correct, but only one CAUSES people to sabotage themselves; the “REASONS WHY”  They don’t have enough PUSH, DRIVE, FIRE, MOTIVATION, whatever you want to call it behind they’re goal.

The reasons “WHY” we do things CAUSE all of us to ACT!

Think about the reasons you do the things that are important.

WHY do you work? WHY do you eat? WHY do you have hobbies?

They’re all based upon a FEELING of “have to.” Does that make sense? Some things we WANT, and others we HAVE TO have!  The ones we WANT have mild feelings of motivation, while the HAVE TO’s have reasons that CAUSE us to take action. The more reasons, the higher the intensity of feelings that drive us to take action.

Here’s a simple exercise to get you moving in the right direction.

Go find a quiet place to think. Get out a piece of paper and write down just 10 things you’d like to accomplish this year. Then break-down each one of these 10 things into 10

Individual tasks which you’d have to complete in order to obtain each one of them.

Then, when you’re real clear about WHAT needs to be done to accomplish them all, write down as many REASONS WHY you can for each one of them.  The more that better! (I have coaching clients I instruct to write out 100 for each ;-)  Go for it, have fun doing this and I promise your success rate will quadruple over the next 12 months!

So to sum up WHY most people can’t get what they want,

It’s just a lack of intense reasons WHY they want them!

I hope this makes a difference in you getting more of what you want from life, if not, its’ only because you don’t have a Success Coach yet!  LOL 

Call me for a free 30 minute session.  I’d like to help you get what you want!